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Question: If something is permitted in Jewish law does that mean that its right?
Answer: Not necessarily. The Ramban (Vayikra 19: 2) writes that the Torah itself requires us to make an effort to avoid moral self-destruction caused by over-indulgence in permitted activities. Therefore, even though there are many pleasures and activities that the Torah does not explicitly forbid, the holiness expected of a Jew requires that we nevertheless avoid excess.
Since, however, there is no single set of clear guidelines that is appropriate for everyone in every situation, the real trick is to somehow accurately assess what level of restraint is right for you at any given time.
With best wishes,
Rabbi Boruch Clinton
