I am in a very uncomfortable predicament. I send my three children to a Hebrew school. For the coming school year, the school has decided to raise tuition by 30%. In order to receive an abatement, we need to complete an intensive and invasive financial survey, which we refuse to do. However, the school is now threatening that they will deny admittance to my kids if we do not pay the tuition. Isn’t that contrary to all Jewish values, that they will deny my children an education?
I am very sympathetic to your dilemma, but I’m not entirely sure that my limited understanding of the situation will allow me to offer a conclusive position. Nevertheless, let me present some basic information.
The Talmud (Bava Batra 21a) records how Rabbi Yehosha ben Gamla (acting, it seems, as a cover for the embattled Rabbi Shimon ben Shetach) established a binding requirement on every Jewish community throughout the world to create and fund Torah schools for every Jewish boy above the age of six. The financial burden rested on the shoulders of every permanent citizen of a community, whether or not he happened to have children of his own in the school system.
This legal obligation is codified in the Shulchan Aruch (Yorah Deah 245:7). In the early decades of the 20th Century, this community obligation was extended to girls’ education, following pretty much the same standard.
Therefore, as long as a parent is paying his fair, proportional share of the cost of a school (calculated according to the total number of Jews in that community), he can’t be pressed for more. That should mean that each individual should face a relatively light tuition bill.
Nevertheless, in light of the fact that it is becoming increasingly difficult to define community membership (most cities include many fragmented sub-communities that often don’t recognize each other or their institutions), and the fact that many Jews have no interest in funding Torah education, the primary yoke of educational funding has, by default, fallen on the shoulders of parents. With the rising costs of education, schools are faced with significant budget shortfalls and many are forced to pass along the cost to the parents. This obviously leads to arguments between parties over whether a particular family should be paying more or less.
As it is really impossible for me to know whether your children’s school is really placing too great a burden on you, I can only leave that part up to you. I do hope, however, that these ideas prove useful to you, and that you will, one way or the other, successfully find a way to instill significant Torah knowledge and values in your children.
With my best regards,
Rabbi Boruch Clinton
