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Unchanging Standards of Modesty

Question

What kind of clothing was normal for the Hebrew men and women before the Torah was given? After the Torah, what kind of clothing was generally worn (by men and women)? Why should such regulations apply for all times and generations, especially when cultural factors change?

Answer

I am not aware of any traditional sources that discuss the specific mode of dress used by the ancient Hebrews, nor of any change in dress that occurred following the Sinai revelation. However it seems reasonable to assume that the Hebrews dressed in the style of other desert dwelling peoples, donning long flowing robes and some type of head covering. The Talmud does state that when the Jews dwelled in Egypt they continued to dress in their traditional clothing, distancing themselves from the foreign dress of the Egyptians.

The basic guidelines of modesty are discussed in the Jewish Oral Tradition. Jewish law requires women to cover themselves past their elbows, and below their knees. The areas below these points are permitted to be uncovered unless the general custom of the city that any given women lives in is to cover these areas (Mishna Berura 74:2). In addition, a woman’s shirt should cover her collar bone. Jewish law also requires married women to cover their hair. The standards of dress for men are less clear, generally following the modern trends of decency in dress.

Besides the basic concept of modesty, that we try to avoid causing others to think improper thoughts, Judaism sees modesty as one of the keys to unlocking one’s spiritual potential. By clothing ourselves in accordance with proper standards of modesty we are sending a message to ourselves and to others that we view our physical body as secondary to our soul, our true essence. Since a person often acts according to the way that he dresses (for example, an immodestly dressed woman on the beach is bound to act in a more physical manner than a royally dressed woman at a ball), modesty tends to bring out a person’s inner refinement and nobility of soul. Understandably, the sages of the Talmud referred to their clothes as “Mechubdasi”, “my honor”. It is the natural recognition of our holy essence that tells us to cover our physicality, thereby allowing our souls the ability to shine through. It should be obvious, then, why we are never shocked to see a naked dog roaming the streets. Since we recognize that animals are basically physical beings, acting out of instinct, we do not expect them to be covered with clothing.

As we have seen, some basic standards of modesty are viewed as subjectively proper, breeding a fundamental refinement of character, while further stringincies in modesty may be required based on the trends of the time. I hope this aids you in your search for attaining greater modesty in your life.

Yochai Robkin
Project Genesis

Follow-up question

Question

I know that Hashem (G-d) does not want us to only focus on our exterior and physical bodies, but much benefit can come from exercise. There is significant research that engaging in sports is healthy for girls. One cannot go jogging in the summer in a long skirt.

Also, would the torah prohibit Jewish men from partaking in soccer, swimming, or other sports where they would be seen in public by members of the opposite sex?

Answer

You are certainly correct that exercise is of great benefit and, I would add, is likely a full Torah requirement as well.

Balancing the need for exercise with other Torah values (like modesty) is something that often requires individual analysis. For instance, someone with a serious heart condition whose doctor told him to take long brisk walks while carrying emergency medication, might be able to do so even on Shabbos in an area where carrying is normally not allowed. On the other hand, if that same person has a range of other, equally effective exercise activities he could choose from that would not conflict with Shabbos observance, then he should avoid the outside walk that one day a week.

You might want to ask yourself if there are suitable alternatives to public jogging: is there private swimming available? Is a very brisk walk of equal value (once you factor in the extra time needed) something you could enjoy? Are there safe local private trails where, at certain low-use times of the day, you might not encounter any men?

If, after all these considerations, there really is no alternative for you and this particular exercise regimen is particularly essential for your health, then there might be room to consider compromise (after consultation with an expert in Jewish Law) .

The guidelines covering men’s participation in public sports are indeed somewhat less formal and, while some would find it distasteful, there is no actual prohibition in men appearing in shorts.

With my best wishes,
Rabbi Boruch Clinton
Ottawa, Canada