I work with a number of Orthodox Jews. Can you address some of the issues that may arise over kosher laws? If I keep hard candy on my desk that is Kosher – can I offer it to them and their children?

You can certainly offer your co-workers (although, to satisfy any doubts, you might like to make the kosher symbol obviously available to see). Technically, the kids should be no different, but there are some parents who might not like their kids getting into the habit of taking candy from just anyone (not that you’re just anyone, of course :)), so you might want to make an effort to ask parents first.

Can I keep canned soda in a kosher kitchen, though the soda cans don’t state that they are kosher.

Most Orthodox Jews drink most of the national brands of soda even without a symbol (i.e., Coke, Pepsi, 7-Up) as many or all of these are inspected by kosher organizations even though, for marketing reasons, symbols are not printed. Local or second-label brands might be more of a problem. If you like, you could take a look at the web site www.kashrut.com for a whole list of kosher sodas.

I also assume that I could eat food prepared by my co-workers, but not prepare or offer foods…If I brought deli items from a kosher (certified) place would that be acceptable?

Gee, you’re a generous soul…want to come work in my school? You should make sure that all meat or prepared products remain sealed in their original packages. There’s also the chance that some of your co-workers might not eat from every certified establishment in town. It would be best to ask first.

What about manners and customs regarding courtesy with females. I only learned today that it is not considered “common” for religious women to shake hands? Are there similar customs with men? Rabbi’s, Holy Men?

No, men shaking hands with women (and visa versa) is the only problem I’ve ever heard of.

Is there a resource for non-Jews that might want to better respect the laws of those around them who keep the “Law” , sort of a “Jewish Customs and Manners for Dummies”?

That’s actually not a bad idea, though I’m not aware of anything that actually exists that fits the description.

With best regards,
Rabbi Boruch Clinton